Sunday, 18 May 2014

Musing something about missing someone

Have you ever missed someone but didn’t feel like seeing or even contacting her?

As you ask yourself this question, a name or an image of someone appears in your mind. And in your mind you know that that person is the one you are missing right now. But you don’t want to make any contact with her.It’s not that striking up a conversation is a difficult matter. For several times in the past you said ‘hi’ without having any other topics that should continue the simple exchange into a conversation. Many of these instances you can remember quite well.

You take up your cell phone and access the chat box where you and she said a few things the other night. You can still very well recall what she said, and even the emoticon she had put at the end of her message is a vivid image. But still you re-read that conversation. Your eyes slowly moved from the capital letter that introduces her message to the last one, while in your mind her voice reads the message for you. Listening to her soft, imaginary voice,you smiled. Just like you did every time you actually talked to her. You are still staring at the screen, realizing that you did not open the chat box to remind yourself of the message, but to pamper yourself in the reminiscence of the emotions you used to be in when you met her. These emotions had made up a tender affection you had for her. Your memory of this is being refreshed.

Maybe you give yourself into lying in your bedroom wide awake in the dead of the night thinking of that one person simply because you like missing her. When you are missing her, some space in your heart feels empty, the space you only now realized was where you kept her in fondness. That emptiness reminds you of the lively affection you have for her. You once again smile. You miss the warmth her presence had upon you. And as you are missing her now, it once more blushes in you.

You realize, this is the reason why you linger in your missing her.

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